Motivation
to lose weight
When you are on diet,
pay attention to what amount of food you eat, follow your workout plan, keep
yourself busy with checking food for calories, etc., it is quite likely that
you will forget your actual aim and your motivation to lose weight. However, knowing
your motivation is extremely helpful when trying to lose weight. After all, your
motivations are the reasons why you decide to reduce your weight. Defining and
knowing clear motivations will help you tremendously to stay disciplined and to
reach the weight you want. You will definitely find it helpful to try the
following steps:
1 – Define your motivation(s)
People want to lose
weight for very different reasons. Many decide to go on diet, because they hope
that they’ll feel more attractive with less weight. Others want to lose weight
for health reasons. There are also people who need to reduce their weight as a
requirement for a job application and others hope to be more agile in everyday
life. It is important to make sure that you define your own motivation. Your
motivation may be among the points listed above, a combination of two or more
of them or something completely different. It is about your body and it’s up to
you to define your motivation yourself. It may help you to phrase your
motivation(s) in writing, for example in a diary. When you phrase it, try to be
very precise. However, in the course of your diet, you might want to rephrase
your motivation and there’s nothing wrong about that.
You can also try and
write your motivation down on a piece of paper or a card and keep it at a
clearly visible place at home. Some people find this very useful and attach a
photograph that reminds them about their motivation next to their notes. This
might be a photograph of a beach, where you could show off your results, a
blouse that you would like to buy or practically anything else – it’s all up to
you.
2 – Share your motivation(s)
Once you have defined
your motivations, share them with your friends, family, colleagues, and others.
For example you might tell your friends something like “I want to lose weight,
because I’m going on vacation in the summer and I want to look great in my bikini”.
Another thing to say might be “My doctor advised me to lose weight, because it
will reduce my back pain tremendously.”
By making your
motivation and your aims “public” among people you know well, your
determination to lose weight will be intensified, because it gets more binding characteristics.
Your friends, family, colleagues, etc. will thus be like witnesses for what
you’re saying and you will feel more obliged to stay disciplined.
3 – Remind yourself of your motivation(s)
After a few days or
weeks, you might forget about your motivation to lose weight or it might seem
less intense to you. If you have fixed your motivation in writing on paper,
take it and read through it. Remember how you felt when you wrote it. Is there
anything that you would like to change about it? You might realize that your
motivation has changed or that you have meanwhile found even more motivations
for losing weight. Revise your motivations in this case and make yourself clear
about what you want.
4 – Contrast motivation and results
Have you lost weight
during your diet already? Congratulations! Make yourself clear how much closer
you got towards reaching your eventual aim and be proud of yourself. If you
haven’t lost weight, it might well be that you are not clear about your
motivations anymore. In that case, you can try to rephrase your motivation and
think about steps, which appear helpful to you. Not losing weight might also be
because your motivation(s) are not strong enough. Think about them again,
rephrase them and try to be even more precise when you put them into words.
You might also find it
helpful to reward yourself once you see results – This maybe a shopping trip
during which you buy new clothes to look fabulous in, a photo shooting or
buying new sports equipment that will help you to keep exercises being
something fun and enjoyable to do.
Remember that it’s about you!!!
Many people have
reported that it helped them to picture themselves in their favorite clothes,
which they used to wear in the past, but which were then to small for them.
Others said that this was just stressful and not motivating to them at all.
There are also success
stories of people who found that picturing themselves being much more agile and
handling their lives and their work with much more ease was a real motivation
for them, whilst this does not appear helpful to others at all.
That is why the most
important thing is to remember that motivation is always personal. Remember
that is about you and your aims. You are the one to set motivations and to try
to reach your aims. After all, you are also the main person to see results and
to enjoy them – whatever they might be.
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